Baby Baptism - Things to Consider

Baptisms are celebrations that involve the entire church community. Older children and adults often celebrate a baby baptism with a renewal of their own vows. Whether you are preparing a baby for baptism or picking out a baptismal gift for the child of family or friends, there are a few important things to consider.

Preparing for a Baby Baptism
If your child is about to be baptized you'll be instructed by the priest or minister as to the requirements and what to expect. To qualify for baby baptism in an Episcopal or Roman Catholic church, at least one parent must be a member of that church and prepared to raise the child in the faith. The Roman Catholic Church permits baptism for infants whose parents are divorced or were not married in the Church, as well as babies who were born out of wedlock. A baby baptism in the Roman Catholic and Episcopal churches also requires at least one godparent to sponsor the child and take an active part in his or her religious education. A godparent must be over 16 years of age, a baptized and actively practicing member of the faith. Non-Christian religions also have ceremonies to welcome new babies. They may be called dedications or naming ceremonies. The basic etiquette for participants and guests is the same.

Choosing a Baby Baptism Gift

Only members of the church congregation and invited guests can attend a baptism. If you are the baby's parent, bring a gift for the godparents and another for the priest or minister in charge. If you are to be a godparent, choose a gift for the baby. Many baptismal gifts are easily available on line and in religious goods stores. You might choose a plaque with the baby's name and its meaning, a piece of baptismal jewelry, a personalized silver-plated feeding set, or a simple warm blanket. You may also bring a gift if you are invited to a baby baptism.